A question that some wives ask themselves every day. However, "Everyone in a relationship argues" Debbie Mandel, author of Addicted to Stress, says. The most prominent point here is how these argument ends, and why they started in the first place?
Some families never learn from other peoples’ faults. As some couples say at the beginning of their lives that they just want to have a boy and a girl, a simple wish, but it ends with dozens! Then life begins to change from paradise to hell. This may lead to financial problems and everyday petty fights. Fighting is not as some scientists and sociologists proclaim ‘healthy for marriage’, at least not in all cases, especially if there is physical abuse. The father hits the mother, their children might develop psychological issues, that in some cases end with a boy just like his father and a girl that hates marriage and men! Some parents, despite the fact that they are adults are closed-minded. They do not recognize their children's issues and even if they do, they do not give it enough attention. They believe that their children are too young to understand the conflict or even the abuse between parents, not realizing that those tender years are the most important years in building their mental and emotional capabilities. They are raising villains and cruel generations. “Marriage is indeed a maneuvering business.” Jane Austen says. But I shall say successful marriage is indeed a maneuvering business, which could end in peace and love.
Shereen Nabil Nagib Ramadan
Egypt-Cairo
Some families never learn from other peoples’ faults. As some couples say at the beginning of their lives that they just want to have a boy and a girl, a simple wish, but it ends with dozens! Then life begins to change from paradise to hell. This may lead to financial problems and everyday petty fights. Fighting is not as some scientists and sociologists proclaim ‘healthy for marriage’, at least not in all cases, especially if there is physical abuse. The father hits the mother, their children might develop psychological issues, that in some cases end with a boy just like his father and a girl that hates marriage and men! Some parents, despite the fact that they are adults are closed-minded. They do not recognize their children's issues and even if they do, they do not give it enough attention. They believe that their children are too young to understand the conflict or even the abuse between parents, not realizing that those tender years are the most important years in building their mental and emotional capabilities. They are raising villains and cruel generations. “Marriage is indeed a maneuvering business.” Jane Austen says. But I shall say successful marriage is indeed a maneuvering business, which could end in peace and love.
Shereen Nabil Nagib Ramadan
Egypt-Cairo
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