Tuesday, January 21, 2014

New Year's Gift

It was the worst and the hardest year in my life, you might not believe it but it was just like that. It is not because I got a big fight with a friend, or because of the news that we are watching every day. It is all not about that. In this year, I discovered that success and happiness are the most precious and expensive things in the world, "There is no shortcut to happiness".

I got one of the most incredible things I targeted last year. However, I lost one of the most important persons in my life, and in my whole upbringing. "Life is life", bad things really do happen, and they will always do. So, choose the life you want to live, if you are going to lose something or someone just try to- not to replace it or them- make life worthy, prove to the people you love –whether they are here or not- that you will always be good, determined and capable for their memorial. Prove to the world that those people were so special, even if the other do not care for your lose. Prove to them that you are special, because they were.

In this year, I got a new lesson. I knew what "DEATH" is. Although, we might lose friends, family members, or celebrities whom we love, the first lose of a close family member is the hardest. It will teach you life within death. It will change you for the rest of your life, and your perspective, you will be depressed every month for awhile, you will lose hope, friends will never understand or appreciate your sorrow, or lose. They have never been you or the person you lost, so do not get mad of them, just let them know who the beloved ones were through your behaviors.

Life is way worthy of living not because it is so good or bad, though it is the most precious gift that you will ever had. Whether you are Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, or believe in any other religion, we all believe in God, we all have the same gift. It is in the core of your soul and heart, it is your spirit from our Almighty God. It is in your mind, even if you are disabled or paralyzed, you still have thoughts and heart beats. It is the gift that you will have every New Year without a hidden box or wrapping paper. It is the breath that you will have with the first minute of the year and will continue till the end of the year. So be thankful, grateful, and satisfied. I promise you those bad things will always happen, but I also promise you that you will be much happier with gaining new experience and new achievement in your every breath and with every lose. Just feel and smell our precious gift as you smell the hope of the New Year's Eve.

By Nesreen Nabil

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